Sacrifices and Adjustments in Life

I am back almost after 20 days! I am doing my best to maintain consistency, Although I agree it is a bit challenging for me due to my work-life balance. But nothing is impossible. Let’s pitch into the topic.

I would like to recall a conversation that I had with my little one’s class teacher during the Parent-Teacher Meeting (PTM). In these meetings, we not only discuss academics, but we talk about other matters. I told the teacher that my child is finding it very difficult to maintain a good rapport with his friends. Then the teacher shared some important advice with my little one. The teacher shared a piece of advice with my little one: “Relationship requires sacrifices and adjustments” At that moment my little one didn’t grasp her words. But later we both understand the power of her words.

This is not about being a “loser” by using this approach. This is one of the strategies that leads us to become successful in all aspects of life. I heard about a nice quote from my ancestors.

பொறுத்தார் பூமி ஆள்வார்
(Patience conquers the world)

Whenever there is a clash of thoughts with people, whether with friends or family members–It is important to remain calm as much as possible. In my perspective, no decisions should be made when we are confused. Everybody faces confusion amid any clash or controversial thoughts. But once the storm settles, we should take some time to think about both positives and negatives on both sides. This always helps us to come up with the best solution and avoid further disputes.

Being quiet and accepting the situation does not drop off our dignity. Our dignity will rise when we find out the right solution to resolve any disputes.

This is my perspective on maintaining relationships, and I am sharing this approach with my little one as a way of teaching him on how to sail through life’s challenges.

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